A mother unconsciously learns from her mother to always take care of an alcoholic son… and so he never grows to overcome his challenge. She enables him to stay stuck.
Another mother allows here son to come back into their house when he is 35 old, thus he never grows and overcomes the rough times… thus he stays stuck, because she saw her mother do the same thing and unconsciously does the same thing.
Sometimes we have to leave the people we love the most alone, so they can go through the dark night of the soul in order to find the light. Thus they grow and become stronger and become part of the light!
Dr. Paul Haider