On the other side of this life there are many gradations, and if you look at Near Death Experiences you will see the majority, 99% or more, go to a place of light and then to a place of love.
Very few ever have the negative experience and then many of those that do… yell out for God and they too are transformed and come back into the body to try again.
One case comes to mind of a man that hated people and when he died there was darkness and people around him tearing at his flesh and biting him.
He screamed out for God… and he was instantaneously put back into his body… and his heart started to pump once again.
It changed this man… he believed in nothing before the experience… and now he is a minister with his own church.
We come for a reason… some will go through many lives to finally reach their goal.
Others do it in short order.
But sooner or later all of us get to the light.
The light is there inside each of us… but covered over by the soot of life.
Sooner or later we remove all the soot… and let our light shine.
Dr. Paul Haider