Men need to be needed, science has proven this… and women have a need to have children most of the time too.
Their are roles that men and women play… and in the bedroom their is the need of these roles most of the time… a man does not feel like a man and feel like making love if he is dominated and told what to do all the time.
I have done counseling with couples with whom this has happened too… and when the man becomes more powerful in the family… their sex life jumps by leaps and bounds.
I also practice hypnosis helping some of these men by giving them suggestions of being more powerful works almost 100% of the time.
I think in the US that a lot of people want to feel androgynous without either sex taking dominance but that leads to a lot of problems.
That does not mean that the man has to tower over the woman and bark orders… their just has to be great respect on both sides that brings about love… a love for the greatness of being a wonderful man… and a wonderful woman.
Both have to feel powerful and meet in the middle to create something wonderful!
Thus the spirit between the two of them grows and life flourishes.
And God… Sees God… within One Another!
Dr. Paul Haider