The Relaxed Soul on “The Seven Fears” – The Expanded Version

Here are the seven powerful fears… and someone asked me to elaborate a little more about these 7 fears… so here it is.

The fear of not getting what we want.  – When we do get what we want in life we become sad, depressed, and that sadness comes from the fact that were are always fearful of not getting something, someone, or having some situation not work out… thus that fear keeps us from attaining true bliss, peace, and having true love within. No one ever said we would have what we want, all the great guru’s, saints, and teachers of the world came to say — as the sparrow you will have what you need, you will not be forgotten. Do not allow that little voice of lack to fill that void in your heart. That voice is not true! The truth is you can move mountains with less than a glance! You can do more than you think if you harken to the one spirit within and know you are unstoppable.

The fear of getting something other than what we want. – Then when we get something and we are not happy, we are upset because we are in total fear of having something in our life show up that might not be exactly what we want. Thus we never attain that simple state of peace. If you just got married and were in a total state of love would you be thinking about fear? Of course not… and that state of love is exactly the state of energy we need to be in at all times… to break free of fear and have everything. Keep love in your heart instead of fear and everything will be great!

The fear of having pain instead of pleasure. – Every one of us wants pleasure, but trying to stay away from pain makes us do just about anything to keep from suffering. And without some suffering we never understand the soul… and thus everything boils down to being in fear. It’s a vicious circle of trying to stay away from pain… instead of living in a state of love, bliss, and peace.

The fear of needing to be in the past. – Every time we go back to the past and think “IF ONLY” we are in a state of fear. And fear keeps us caught in a cycle of karma that’s impossible to break until we understand the past has no bearing on the here-and-now. That if we did something wrong in the past… we must let it go in order to have peace. Otherwise the cycle of continues and we attract into our life more suffering. Thus living in bliss sets us free, to see the world as great no matter what we have going on.

The fear of needing to be in the future. – When we are thinking about what might come, or what may happen, we are substituting fear for love… and the outcome can be nothing less than tragic. That creates a state of fear which is driven by ego, a place of wanting to know, a place of needing, instead of allowing the future to unfold and accepting everything. That does not mean never taking action, there are three levels of energy… the first being love and doing what we need to do from a place of love. The second being taking action with love in mind, thus we can create a better world. And the third is fear… living from this low vibration drags us down into the depths of despair.

The fear of not understanding. – Have you ever met someone who had to know everything? And had to make sense of it all? That’s fear… a fear of needing to make sense of the world when many times the world doesn’t make any sense at all. Trying to think the world straight is a type of fear. We can’t think anything straight, we first have to accept what happened, forgive what happened, and then move on… which is action. Thus forgiving is a process of love and action. Thus we are free of all the suffering associated with trying to make logical sense of the world… and thus peace, love, and bliss filter in.

And the fear derived from craving anything. – When we want something… and I mean anything… it brings about a whirlpool of emptiness in our heart… and that emptiness creates a longing to have this or that. Of course there is no peace of any kind in being empty hearted. All we have to do is fill that void with love as did Jesus, Buddha, Krishna… and all the rest of the avatars who moved Million people at a glance, changing their lives forever. And love is what we need… not fears from cravings, fears derived from wants, not fear derived from emptiness, we are so much more than fear… WE ARE THE GAME CHANGER – WE ARE LOVE.

Thus when we find the source of all fears… we find the source of all reality… which stems from…

our lack of understanding about our true self… One with the Tao, the Universe, and God.

It’s a lack of understanding about our true nature… that Spirit Goes On Forever. And science has proven with quantum theory that we cannot be destroyed. And all the near death experiences show we come and go… until we join total bliss for all eternity.

Thus our lack of understanding about our five senses ruling our life keeps us caught in fear…

Unless we use our mind and spirit to find INNER PEACE

Which can only be found if we base everything on LOVE!


Dr. Paul Haider – Spiritual Teacher and Master Herbalist for over 20 years, helping people to recover and feel healthy in mind, body, and spirit. You can find Dr. Haider on FB under Dr. Paul Haider, Healing Herbs, Shambala Spiritual Transformation Institute, Meditation for the Soul, and Relax Into Success, Punjab Teas, and at feel free to contact him any time. Also check out Dr. Haider’s radio show at Sept. show to be about “Doing a Spiritual Cleansing”

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About Dr. Paul Haider

Dr. Paul Haider has been a Master Herbalist for over 25 years. Dr. Haider helps those looking for healing and realization. Dr. Haider has over 4,000 articles about natural health and spirituality, a radio show, and writes for many magazines including OM Times Magazine. Dr. Paul Haider - Contact him on his Website contact form at - and also on FB under Dr. Paul Haider
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