“How Do We Attract the Perfect Mate”

What does it take to attract the perfect spouse… you will probably be surprised by the answer.

Lots of people are looking for someone that they can love, respect, and care for, yet they always attract just the opposite… why is that?

Happy Couple

We Have Lots of Negative Karma

First of all, we have lots of karma that we have built up over millions of lifetimes and that karma is there in the background working away like a silent program on a computer doing what it needs to do. And even though that past karma is not noticed by the one who has that karma other people notice their vibe… and that vibration attracts like-minded karma into their life. Thus if one has lots of negative karma with lots of anger accumulated over many lifetimes then that anger is there running in the background and that anger attracts someone who is also unconsciously angry.

How Do We Get Rid of Negative Karma?

Saying a personal name of God thousands of times daily removes past karma. Saying the name Jesus, Buddha, Krishna and other names over silently or out loud all day long is super powerful. Saying a personal name of God repeatedly is one of the most powerful things a person can do to get rid of past karma. Also, it’s important to stop accumulating more negative karma in this life. This means letting go of all desires and wants and allowing life to flow. Plus, seeing the good in all things no matter what might have happened.

Change Our Vibration 

Lots of people want a perfect spouse but they never work on themselves thus their vibration is attracting into their lives only that which is just like them. I know what you are going to say, “I’m not like that”… but in reality, we all have negative traits we can work on and dissolve away. If we want greatness we have to be great ourselves. If we want respect we have to have respect for everyone no matter who they are. If we want loyalty, we have to be loyal, if we want love in out life we have to be loving. Like attracts like… this is a powerful law of the universe. Thus we have to allow ourselves to overcome our negative tenancies. This takes time and can be accomplished by reading self-help books, doing counseling, writing our feelings out in a journal every night, catching our negative ways and thoughts and making positive changes, all of this helps to change our vibration and dissolve away the past.

Rid Ourselves of Negative Entities that are Sabotaging Our Life

Up to 80% of the population without realizing it has negative entities clinging to their aura energy sabotaging their life. These entities are usually ancient relatives that we don’t know anything about… but they keep us from achieving what we want in life… thus we are never happy.

How Do We Get Rid of These Negative Entities?

First of all, it’s important to do some cleansing of our aura. This can be accomplished a few ways. The first one is taking a 5-gallon bucket of water and add 1 cup of regular salt, and sitting down and with our legs in the water and start saying a personal name of God repeatedly for 15 minutes and then drying our legs with a towel which we must wash. And pouring that water down the drain and rinsing the bucket. Do this 3 times a week for one month.

Also, using a sage smudge stick and getting it wet slightly and lighting it on fire so it smokes and doing a cleanse around the house and around your body. At the same time saying very loudly, “In the Name of God, the Universe, and the Great Spirit, I command that all that is not of light, all that is not of love, all that is not of peace leave now!” Do this 3 times a week for one month.

Be Happy — Being Yourself for the Rest of Your Life 

Also, how can we attract that which is loving and kind into our life if we are not happy with our lives and what we have going on right now? Be totally happy being by yourself, stop looking for mister or misses right. Live your life as though you are going to have to be happy by yourself for the rest of your life. And you know what? By doing that… all of a sudden your vibration changes… and then you start attracting the right people.

So be happy, live life as though today was going to be your last day alive… and love God and everyone else with all your heart… and everything will work out great.

Many Blessings to Everyone!

Dr. Paul Haider

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